Here's a great guest post from a member of my linked In group- What a wonderful practice to emulate!
By Rebecca L.J. Geragosian
Two vital aspects of any stewardship program worth its salt
are a clear acknowledgment process and a meaningful donor recognition program.
Typically, this applies to acknowledging gifts and recognizing those same donors
in some fashion (whether in a publication or on a donor wall or plaque). But,
some acknowledgment and recognition happens outside of that box at Phillips
Academy.
This is an old school with many rich traditions. It is also
a school with several mottos, one of which is non sibi or “not for self alone”. It is in this spirit, that we ask
our scholarship recipients to write letters to the contacts of our endowed
scholarship funds. Another spring tradition, spearheaded by our Parent Fund
team in coordination with Stewardship, is to ask parents of graduating seniors
to reflect on their son or daughter’s time at Phillips Academy and to
acknowledge the faculty and staff who made meaningful contributions to their
students’ experience. In fact, sometimes parents begin sending in their letters
of appreciation before we can get the request out. The letters are compiled by
the Stewardship and Parent Fund teams and presented to the faculty at the end
of the school year. They are organized by the honored faculty member’s last
name so that they can find letters about themselves easily. The book has been
located in a central place for faculty to peruse, but this year it will be
available as a PDF so that it is easier to find and look at. Individual letters
are then given to the faculty. Many families will send us hand-written cards,
and even photo albums which can be forwarded to the appropriate faculty member.
But one thing is for sure – they are all heartfelt and truly touching messages.
An excerpt is below:
“We were not asked to write, but we could not help but write.
These past four years have been the most wonderful and life enhancing gift for
our youngest son. His father and I seldom go more than a couple of days
before sharing how grateful we are that our son was granted the extraordinary
privilege of attending Andover. As his four-year Andover career comes to
a close, we are very nostalgic and impressed by his entire journey.
Andover does not disappoint. Its reputation is almost intimidating. However,
we found the academic rigor matched by equal compassion and generosity of
spirit, and, in our case, generosity of resources. We never met you and yet we
owe you so much.”
The two projects I mentioned above are similar on the
surface. They both recognize people who have been an important force in the
lives of Phillips Academy’s students. And, in both cases we are asking the end
users, the families, to write the acknowledgment. But, the faculty appreciation
book is unique in that (prospective) donors are actually our partners, in
acknowledging faculty members, and that the group being recognized (our
faculty) aren’t necessarily donors. Nevertheless, they have made
“contributions” to the Academy in their time, effort, blood, sweat and tears
(the last part applies especially our coaches). Being a boarding school, our
teachers spend countless hours outside the classroom teaching, mentoring,
coaching, counseling and “parenting.” More than once, our gift officers have
come back from meeting with alumni who say they didn’t appreciate then what
they do now, which is how extraordinary it is that someone will donate
substantial amounts of their own time, and money, for someone they hardly know,
so that they can benefit from an Andover education. However, it is clear that
fact is not lost on the parents of many of our students. Some parents will send
a gift with their letter, made in honor of their student’s favorite teachers or
in appreciation for the fabulous education their student has received in their
time here.
At an ADRP meeting I attended, someone said that their goal
was to make donors happy they gave, and to get them excited about giving again.
Sometimes though, we have to do things a little out of order to get the same
result. Case in point – this project serves as a reminder to parents, and
hopefully students, to “give back” to the school that has given their child so
much. The goals of this project are two-fold: to acknowledge and recognize the
faculty who make this school as great as it is, and to turn grateful parents
and students into grateful donors.
Rebecca L.J. Geragosian
Assistant Director of Stewardship
Phillips Academy
Thanks Rebecca! Cheers,
Lynne